I Never Met My Mother

How do you get your attention off the bills when you are trying to attract money? You pretend, you make believe, and you create games with those bills to trick your mind into thinking good thoughts. Get your mind so busy with make believe games of what you want that there is no room for it to send you thoughts of lack.

You are creative being, so find the best creative way for you to turn your bills and bank statement into make-believe game of abundance.

The Secret

Notes from The Editor

Suggestions for the following changes.

1.  Schedule a half-day of your life to organize and update your finances. Instead of viewing this exsercise with dread, pat yourself on the back and give yourself credit for taking responsibility for facing your financial facts. By taking the time to inform yourself about the reality of your net worth, you are putting naivete behind you and acting like an adult you are.

2.  Gather all your financial documents. That includes insurance policies; checking, savings, an investment account statements, mortgage papers, credit card bills, alimony receipts, and so on. Remember the equation “All That You Own Minus All That You Owe Equals Your Net Worth” and develop a clear statement of outstanding debts versus current and projected income.

3. After that create your financial Vision. Do it in your journal. Make your words sing back to you on  the page. Remember to create financial vision so compelling and personally meaningful that it motivates you to pass up tempting but less important purchases in order to save for your top priorities.

4. Call up a financial savvy friend and ask if you can buy him or her lunch or dinner. Take your financial vision statememnt to show them. Ask if they have any recommendations about how you could better manage your money. Welcome their suggestions.

Janna Sosensky

There is no outside force that can affect your life unless you give that force power with your thoughts. The greatest power is within you.

Use the power within, and realize that for your life there is nothing mightier in this world.

The Secret

The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.

Joan Didion, writer (1934-   )

Before you can caretake others, take care to take care of yourself. Take care of your own heart so  you can inspire to open theirs. Take care of your mind so you remain a clear and focused guide. Only then are you ready to caretake an elder, an infant, an invalid. Caretake the living, the dying. the injured, the fallen. Caretake a school, a house, a farm, that tiny park that no one else seems to care about. Caretake an organization that is flondering, a neighborhood that’s crumbling, a woman who has lost her way. Take time to care mindfully and to care well. Most important, take care you don’t give up entire life by talking care of everyone but yourself.

Rachael Snyder

Notes from The Editor

Learn how to love yourself, do not work hard to prove that you’re worthy. Doing this is a wrong reason. One day you will be disappointed. What does loving yourself mean? It actually has very little to do with being self-centered. It has to do with self approval and self improving. You invest in your own worth, physically, spiritually, intellectually, so you become the best you can be. It’s an ongoing process. It’s life time process, so plan it for yourself, and help others to plan it too.

Janna Sosesnky

The negative feeling of disappointment keeps your desire from you. To turn disappointment into positive feeling, start thinking and saying, “WHEN my desire arrives I am going to…” And fill the blank.

This is a great way to shift  yourself to believing is where you want to be.

The Secret

Notes from The Editor

Dr. Wayne Dyer says:

“Even if you’re in the gutter, you have the option of looking at the stars”

Yes! It’s a choice that we can make. Do I want to stay in a gutter? If the anwer is “No!” I then make my choice: My Desire is to change it! I want this (be specific). And I can! Let’s see what my first step is? Who do I talk to? Who could I share with about my situation? Who do I respect enough, so we could discuss  some of the ideas.

I should be talking to these three people. Why do I want to talk them? Because I know that this person…is very resourceful. She never gave up. She’s done a lot in her life… and look at her now… she is very happy and productive, that’s why I would be talking with her.

What about this person?… Oh! He is very skillful professional in financing, and he can help me to make my plan.

I need some kind of simple structure, so I can start learning how to be better money manager. I want to learn it.

What about this third person?

She is very good time planner. She knows how to plan, and she sticks with her plan every day. She even has this funny message on her phone; she works from home. The message says: ” I am on my next task, and will call back when I finish it, unless it’s emergency.”

Hope it’s helpful.

What would be your choice: “… looking at the stars?” Is it?

Janna Sosensky

Once you know the law of attraction, you can make the best discoveries about yourself by listening of what you are saying.

When you state something as an absolute fact, realize that it is something you really believe, and that belief is creating it in your life. As you hear your words and realize that you are saying what you do not want, switch immediately and rephraze your sentence with the words of what you want.

You will learn so much about your past experiences and what you have created when you listen to your words. And then you catch your words and change them, you are changing the entire course of your future.

The Secret

Notes from The Editor

Let’s see what kind of words are used by most of us, and how we can change it.

I don’t want to catch a cold           I want to be free of colds

I don’t want to forget                       I want to remember

I don’t have the money for..         I plan how I spend my money

I can’t afford…                                    This can wait, I have other priorities now

I don’t get along with                      We are so different.. yet I respect the way she/he is

I never do what I like to do         I am starting to do more of what I like

I don’t have the time for…            I am making the time for…

I always argue with…                      I am learning to communicate better, and starting to enjoy our conversations

I could never learn this                  I am learning this, one step at a time

I am never good at this                   I know I can do better, I just work at it slowly

You may want to continue this list.

Janna Sosensky