I Never Met My Mother

 When you exist in the beautiful state of gratitude, you become a person who only wants to give. You become so grateful that it takes over your life, and you can’t find enough opportunities in a day to give. You give joy, you give love,, you give money, you give appreciation, you give compliments, and you give smiles and kindness.

You give the best in your job, your business, in your relationships, and to strangers.

You will know when you have really found true gratitude, because you will become a giver. One who is truly grateful cannot be anything else.

As you read these lines, you may say…and how can I give gratitude to a person who really hurt me.

Now think about what really happened. You learned something. You want to recognize it, and be grateful that you got this lesson.

Give this person a blessing. Write a letter, and burn it, do not  

 keep it. Let it go, and move on with a smile, you’re this much wiser.

If You are complaining about things in your life, you are on the complaining frequency,  and you are not in a position to attract what you want.

Get on to the frequency of good with your thoughts and words. Firstly you will feel good, and secondly you will be on the frequence of receiving more good.

Here’s how it works,

“Oh, you know I work hard and don’t get the results that I want, I will never get there like others so. It’s so easy for them. Nothing comes easy for me.”

So, what I hear you say…it’s hard…never… nothing…

Those words won’t excite you… why would they project good energy? They won’t!

When you say: “Listen, I know I can do it! I am looking for the ways how to work smart. I should talk with some of the people who seemed to work with ease, and it seems like it ’s

happening for them. I must learn from them, because I know I can do it too!”

That’s the difference!

You get it?!

Whatever you want to bring into your life, you must GIVE it. Do you want love? Then give it. Do you want appreciation? Then give it. Do you want understanding? Then give it. Do you  want joy and happiness? Then give it to others.

You have the ability to give so much love, appreciation, understanding, and happiness to so many people every single day!

I had my lessons in this area. 

I was deprived from having my

birthdays celebrated. My father, who picked me up from the orphanage, decided that I didn’t deserve to have my birthdays celebrated.  I decided to give myself my own Birthdays.

It turned out to be my life long habit.

You may say, this is not how it works. You supose to give it to someone what you really want for yourself.

You’re right. I did that too. And it worked. My first boyfriend and love for many, many years…

I wanted him to give me gifts, so I gave him gifts. Eventually, , as soon as he graduated from University, he started to give me gifts.