(continuation from “Things Leaders Must Do.”
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People who succeed in leadership and life do not go around settling scores. They do not even keep score.
So, let’s look how leaders make this principal work.
Give the opposite.
If someone tries to control you, do not control back. Give freedom instead. Give choices. If someone is perfectionist or critical, do not criticize him/her for being critical. Don’t agree with it; just accept it. Do not feel bad, destructive things, but instead sow exactly the opposite. Do not let another person get away with hurting you, but avoid sowing more bad behavior into the relationship. That is self-defeating.
….to be continued tomorrow