How do you deal with controlling people?
Convert them from controlling to frustrated.
The only way people can be controlling is when we make them that way by doing what they want.
Here’s what happens: They get angry, or use guilt, or get pushy, and we give in.. Then we describe them as controlling. If we say no to them and do not do what they are demanding they have no control over us.. They are just frustrated. We have converted them from being controlling, to being frustrated.
Some examples. Say something like this:
“I am so sorry it is frustrating you when I say no. I can see it is hard for you to accept.”"I’m sorry that it feels to you like I don’t care. That must be difficult. But I so hope you can see that i do care.”
“I’m sorry it is so frustrating to you that I am making this choice. I hope you can accept that I still car about you even though I have decided I do it my way.”
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